"The friendship I had [with a man] started when I was
thirteen, but the erotic aspect began when I was fifteen."
She simply felt she wasn't ready for it before.
It turns out Salamander is against relationships with children under the age of
fourteen, but for 'pedophiles' who "fancy children who are fourteen or older" her main message is:
"Go for it. There's nothing wrong with a beautiful friendship, and challenging each other is a natural part of this."
She even stresses that such 'pedophiles' should not be afraid of the consequences but "live in the
here and now".