“I don't have any experience with incest myself, but I hope my contribution will help you somewhat:
I'm 48 now and from the age of 11 to 16, I used to have sex with a man who was 30 years older than I. After I became 16 it stopped because I got
a (another) relationship.
Nevertheless, we always stayed in touch (not sexually). Till this very day he's remained a friend of mine.
He never forced me and he was always very sweet and respectful towards me. It was not just about the sex; he always helped me with everything, and pulled me through dark periods in my life.
He simply is a good man and yes, he's a 'pedophile'. I'd like to say: so what? [...] Life is not black and white.”