A heterosexual adult male (age 24) recalls:
"I had my first sexual contact with an older man in Rotterdam... It was nothing more than each of us quickly masturbating each other, looking shyly around us.
Once this corner was turned, a lot of other experiences followed. I can't say much about them, just sex and nothing more.
One of the reasons nothing lasted was that the men were dead scared of being trapped. The imitative always came from me. I used to wear my shortest and cutest shorts and stroll across the market squares and through the busiest streets of Rotterdam until I saw someone I thought was 'like that' and then I allowed myself to be 'seduced'.
That went on until I was 17. [...]
I have no regrets about this period. I am only sorry that I never had what I was really looking for: an older friend with whom I could enjoy not only sex but all kinds of things, someone who could teach me about everything."