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Frans Gieles, PhD
Crimes Against Children
Why do some people want to hurt children?
By Dan Eden
[...] In late March of 2009 a beautiful little 8 year old girl was missing from her home in Tracy, California. Reports stated that she left her home to play at a friends home, then was returning home -- but never arrived. [...]
True to the profiles of abduction, little Sandra's body was found in
a suitcase, thrown in to a nearby farm aquaduct, on April 6th. Autopsy
reports indicated that she had been "raped" with a foreign
object. Eventually, to everyone's surprise, the alleged perpetrator was
not a man but a 28 year old woman -- a Sunday school teacher -- who
lived just doors away from Sandra's home.
The murder was a shock to everyone but it reminded me that we need to know more about the kind of person or persons that can commit such an act of pure evil.
Who could do this?
Criminal profilers tell us that the people who harm and kill children are suffering from what psychologists call pedophilia.
The primary motive of these attackers is sexual and the subsequent murder usually results from fear of being "revealed" by the victim. One might think that the attacker would know that molesting or raping a child will result in severe criminal penalties before they commit the crime, but often the attackers claim that murder was an "after-thought" which they did not initially intend to do.
Psychologists explain that
the sexual urges of pedophiles are so strong that the consequences of
their actions are not thought out until their urges are gratified --
when it is unfortunately too late.
By Frans Gieles PhD
Nearly all children who are harmed and killed are harmed and killed by traffic, thus by car drivers, by their parents, or by illness, possibly caused by lack of medical care, poverty, lack of food and care, or by war activities.
Pedophilia is just the opposite of a desire to harm and kill children, it is the desire to love them, to cuddle them including in an erotic or sexual way of cuddling. The primary motives are love and attraction, not sex.
If such a person eventually has had sexual contact with a child, fear for prosecution comes up. Only in some extremely seldom cases this fear (as the primary motive) can sadly enough lead to murder.
So this brings us to ask, why does a writer make such a false direct connection between murder and pedophilia?
So this brings us to ask, what is a pedophile?
According to Wikipedia:
The term pedophilia or paedophilia has a range of definitions as found in psychology, law enforcement, and the vernacular.
What makes a person a pedophile?
Most human adults have a psychological preference for the opposite sex of child-bearing age. This would appear to be "hard wired" in the brain for the continuation of the species. Any deviation from this norm is viewed as "unnatural," since sexual intercourse between a man and pre-pubescent child results in no offspring.
Most psychologists had, until the last decade, traditionally grouped homosexuality with pedophilia as a form of pathology. Both are still considered "evil" by many church goers and moralist and who believe these sexual orientations to be matters of "choice."
So it's not a choice.
I wrote about this a few years ago and I was tempted to describe this as a "birth defect." I received hundreds of e-mails from homosexual men and women who resented this label. I understand this and so I have been resigned call it "natural."
But what can one say about pedophilia?
What causes pedophilia?
In a Dutch book about treatment, written by Bernard ten Hag, a psychologist, he argues that pedophilia is a matter of choice:
|Remarkably, we see here
quoted and translated from a Dutch article, only mentioned as "Hag
2004", supposedly being
We neither see the title of the book - actually it is an article within a reader - nor a list of literature references.
Ten Hag rejects the crucial difference between pedophilia (desire, thoughts) and pedosexuality (deeds, acts). This is "because" he rejects the notion of love within the word -philia. Implicitly, he says that heterophilia and homophilia is always love.
Anyone with a bit of life-experience knows that this is not true. This is a giving moral judgment instead of a logically correct definition of both terms and the difference between the three concepts. The -philia in the three concepts can be real love, but also only lust; usually it is a mix of both.
In his next sentence, he actually says - without any argument let
alone proof - that homophilia and heterophilia are preferences, not choices,
and that pedophilia is not a preference but a choice. This is, again, a
judgment, interpretation or conclusion, not a logically correct
description of those concepts. The concept pedophilia is usually
described as a preference.
Is pedophilia a choice?
There is remarkably little that is known about this condition. Most
of what psychologists know is based on statistics and family histories
obtained during therapy of criminal offenders.
It is the crucial difference between desiring money and robbing a bank to get it.
In his texts here below, we will see that he will neglect this crucial difference, here mentioned by himself.
Here's what we know
Having a powerful or controlling mother has been shown to be a dominant factor. In theory, the male pedophile develops an aversion to adult women and their perceived power and focuses on younger, more passive females as the object of sexual preference.
Some regard pedophilia as the result of a distorted need to dominate a sexual partner. Since children are smaller and usually weaker than adults, they may be regarded as no threatening potential partners.
This drive for domination is sometimes thought to explain why most pedophiles are males.
This may be true for some people, but not for others.
Lots of adult sexual partners are dominant to one another.
Actually, most pedophiles want to be equal to children, sensitive to their wishes and explicitly avoiding dominance.
Statistically, one third of pedophiles say that they were abused growing up (Cloud, April 2002).
Some researchers attribute pedophilia to arrested emotional development from the trauma of abuse; that is, the pedophile is attracted to children because he or she has never matured psychologically.
The most frequently assessed neuropsychological characteristic has been general intelligence or IQ.
Some investigators have compared sex offenders against children with non-criminal community control groups, finding the sex offenders to score lower in intelligence (Langevin et al., 1985).
Other investigators have compared sex offenders against children with men convicted of nonsexual crimes, thus controlling for their status in the legal system and any antisociality. The offenders against children again scored lower (Hambridge, 1994)
Most experts regard pedophilia as resulting from psychosocial factors
rather than biological characteristics. But this assumption has some
|Supposedly, only one third
of the 'pedophiles' being examined, thus possibly only the convicted
people, thus the pedosexuals, not the pedophiles.
But we cannot know by lack of a list of references.
Traumas and blocking of maturation can be incited by illness, war, changing home, divorce of the parents, and especially also by neglect and too severe upbringing - and more.
Who have a lower IQ: those who act pedosexuality,
or those who only desire pedophilia without acting it out? Ah,
"the sex offenders."
Again, we miss a list of references.
Both assumptions might have some flaws. There could be much more than one factor.
|Pedophilia is one of the more common sexual pathologies; the large
worldwide market for child pornography suggests that it is more frequent
in the general population than prison statistics would indicate.
Together with voyeurism and exhibitionism, pedophilia is one of the three pathologies most commonly leading to arrest by the police.
statistics only reflect the convicted people, those who committed pedosexual
acts, not the people with pedophile desires who did not
act it out.
Pedophilia, a desire or a feeling, can never lead to arrest; only pedosexual acts can.
The onset of pedophilia usually occurs during adolescence. Occasional pedophiles begin their activities during middle age but this late onset is uncommon. In the United States, about 50% of men arrested for pedophilia are married.
As far as I know, this is much earlier, in pre-puberty or puberty.
Being arrested for pedophilia (desire) is not possible. The percentage says that it is surely possible to attracted to adults as well as to children.
|The frequency of behavior associated with pedophilia varies with
psychosocial stress. As the pedophile's stress levels increase, the
frequency of his or her acting out generally rises also.
||This is possible true, but
I would like to see the evidence or at least a reference. The question
is: what causes what?
Is stress a cause or a result?
Pedophilia is more common among males than among females (about 10%). In addition, the rate of recidivism for persons with a pedophilic preference for males is approximately twice that of pedophiles who prefer females.
Little is known about the incidence of pedophilia in different racial
or ethnic groups.
Despite all the efforts to treat pedophilia, the brain mechanisms
that cause this disorder still remains a mystery.
A new study [...]
|Again: what causes
|... thus it may predispose them to change their sexual interest.||More important question: is this a predisposition? Cause or result?|
The pedophiles had significantly less of a substance called "white matter" which is responsible for wiring the different parts of the brain together.
One interesting theory suggests that right-brained individuals are more child-like and so tend to be adolescent or even pre-adolescent in their thinking.
While these traits are considered positive in creative writing, the arts and tasks involving fantasy, they might also lead one to have an affinity for children who utilize these same traits.
also been suggested that being left-handed creates stress and trauma at
an early age -- living in a world of right-handed people -- and that
this can also contribute to the previously described "arrested
|If this is true and the
correlations are significant enough (sources, please!), and if
may be proven that the correlations are causal, than it might be true
that people with pedophilic feelings are more sensitive than the general
In combination with the hormones, less testosterone, thus less masculinity, this might result in a more or less 'female' character.
Thus, in that case, more sensitive to the child's feelings and expressions, and more inclined to care, cuddle and love them. Thus less inclined to dominate, harm and murder them.
Next important question: if these characteristics are biologically
based, thus natural,
Moreover, if those characters are pre-disposed to be quite sensitive, how can one prove that they all should have too little self-control to inhibit their sexual desires, to cuddle a child whilst avoiding sexual acts, to keep being on the pedophile level and to avoid the pedosexual level?
And if lots of people with pedophilic feelings succeed in living so, what is wrong with them, morally, ethically, legally, biologically or psychologically?
How common is pedophilia?
Pedophilia is running rampant, not only in the US but all over the world. Children are being sexually exploited by a pedophile at the rate of 1 out of 6 boys before the age of 16 and 1 out of 3 girls before the age of 18 (1 out of 4 before the age of 14).
Exploited? In that case by a pedosexual, not by a pedophile.
Not every sexual contact is exploiting.
As a result, some psychologists are attempting to describe pedophilia as a valid sexual orientation.
Dr. Fred S. Berlin asserts that,
Berlin also defends the classification of pedophilia as a mental disorder, stating,
Richard Green was involved in the removal of homosexuality from the DSM list of mental disorders and is now actively trying to have pedophilia removed as well (Gieles, 2002). Green believes that pedophilic feelings are normal.
One quarter of "normal" people are said to feel attracted towards children and more than twenty five percent react with penile erection to pedophilic stimuli. Green also states that one can not reasonably argue that one quarter of the population is mentally ill (Gieles, 2002).
Considering these statistics it seems sensical to conclude that pedophilia is not a mental disorder.
However, the one
quarter of the population that react to pedophilic stimuli do not
necessarily act on their urges.
|Berlin's words must be
quoted from his Reaction in
Archives of Sexual Behavior, December 2002.
My article, mentioned here, must be "Is pedophilia a mental disorder? Discussion in Archives of Sexual Behavior", written in 2003 about the issue of Archives ... mentioned here above. Note, that I am only the reporter in that article; I report what Green and others have written.
This must be from: Hall, Hirschman & Oliver: Sexual Arousal and Arousability to Pedophilic Stimuli in a Community Sample of Normal Men . Behavior Therapy 26 (1995), pp. 681-694.
This conclusion is correct.
"Apparently the whole world is harboring pedophilic fantasies!"
So why do some pedophiles hurt children?
After all, this is the reason for writing this article. But the answer is still illusive for me.
In other words, the pedophile has to repress the strong desire to fantasize about children as a valid sexual object. This desire can never be socially accepted and so continues to cause psychological (and perhaps even spiritual) conflicts that are resolved by diminishing the value of the desired object -- in this case the child -- allowing the opposite feelings to be expressed.
Love turns to hate. Gentle affection turns to violence.
The internal war of morality and ideology becomes expressed as action.
|The author suggests that
this happens always for everyone. This is surely not true. It is not more
than a possibility for some people.
In the lots of cases I could follow, there was only one - say 1 percent or less - in which this might have been true.
Indeed, as was the case of Sandra's murderer, subsequent acts often allow the perpetrator to be caught, as if they wanted to finally rid themselves of the guilt.
The more our culture sexualizes children with things like Barbie and Bratz dolls, inappropriate "Lolita" web sites, fashions hyping sexuality, and allows such things as "sexting" (sending pornographic images of teens and pre-teens over cell phones) the more we feed this apparently innate sexual fantasy of children in a large chunk of the human population.
We set a double standard. While the fantasy of children as sexual objects is being encouraged and the expression of the resulting desires is simultaneously being repressed we may unfortunately expect to see more cases such as little Sandra Cantu in the news.
What do you think about this?
What I think is ...
Dan Eden describes a fact, the murder of a child. He sees this as caused by pedophilia. This is not true; there is another factor active: fear for prosecution. Feeling attracted to children can lead to sexual contact with a child, but not to murder. It is the fear that can lead to murder.
Dan Eden sees pedophilia as a mental distortion and he searches for the causes of that distortion. He finds them in the brains of convicted pedosexuals. The differences he finds are interpreted as the causes. Starting from the concept mental distortion, he cannot see this as a natural variance.
He also does not see the most simple explanation of pedophilic feelings: children are attractive for each human and an erotic or sexual aspect of those feelings may be present, if not as a normal aspect of it, than as a natural variance. Any variance asks for self-control.
Than he doubts. Having read my article, Berlin and Green, he doubts if it is correct and rational to label the (more than) 25% of the population who reacted with lust to 'pedophilic' stimuli as 'distorted'. He acknowledges that the far majority of those 25+% does not act out their feelings, thus are able to control themselves.
He than mentions another factor, the (pedo)sexualization of society and the double standard 'pedosex is everywhere, but may not exist'.
In the course of his writing here above, he sometimes acknowledges the crucial difference between pedophilia (desire, feelings) and pedosexuality (acts, deeds), but in other passages he forgets or neglects this crucial difference. In those passages, pedophilia changes from a natural variance into a demonic evil.
His "illusive" conclusion is that
If a 'wichever'-phile cannot control her- or himself, not the 'wichever'-phile but the lack of self-control is the distortion. Society may react with imprisonment - we have seen that fear for that has led to murder - but real help and therapy work better. A good therapist will not try to suppress or delete the feelings, but will stimulate self-control.
Almost anyone with some grade of attraction to children is able to transform the lust-aspect of it into good care: parents, grandparents, house-parents, teachers, coaches, counselors, and lots of others. Feeling attracted to children, even with an erotic flow, is not the problem. Only sometimes a lack of self-control is the problem.
Thus, do not label people with feelings of attraction to children as distorted or morally bad, and surely not as possible murders per se; better accept them as fellow human-beings and help some of them, if needed, to reach inner transformation and self-control.